Developing an Attitude of Gratitude
Can Help You Live a Longer, Happier Life
November 27, 2014
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at-a-glance
People who are thankful for what they have are
better able to cope with stress, are happier, and
better able to reach their goals
Gratitude is also associated with improved health,
producing a number of measurable effects on various
biological systems
One way to harness the positive power of gratitude
is to keep a gratitude journal, where you actively
write down what you’re grateful for each day
By Dr. Mercola
Besides sharing time with family and friends over food, the
primary ingredient of the American Thanksgiving holiday is
gratitude. While it’s certainly good to have an annual
holiday to remind us to express gratitude, there’s much to be
said for the benefits of cultivating the spirit of thankfulness
year-round.
People who are thankful for what they have are better able to
cope with stress, have more positive emotions, and are better
able to reach their goals. Scientists have even noted that
gratitude is associated with improved health.
As noted in a previous article on this topic published in the
Harvard Mental Health Letter,1
"expressing thanks may be one of the simplest ways to feel
better:"
"The word gratitude is derived from the Latin word
gratia, which means grace, graciousness, or gratefulness
(depending on the context). In some ways gratitude
encompasses all of these meanings. Gratitude is a thankful
appreciation for what an individual receives, whether
tangible or intangible.
With gratitude, people acknowledge the goodness in
their lives. In the process, people usually recognize that
the source of that goodness lies at least partially outside
themselves.
As a result, gratitude also helps people connect to
something larger than themselves as individuals — whether to
other people, nature, or a higher power.
...People feel and express gratitude in multiple
ways. They can apply it to the past (retrieving positive
memories and being thankful for elements of childhood or
past blessings), the present (not taking good fortune for
granted as it comes), and the future (maintaining a hopeful
and optimistic attitude).
Regardless of the inherent or current level of
someone's gratitude, it's a quality that individuals can
successfully cultivate further."
Gratitude—It Does a Body Good
Dr. P. Murali Doraiswamy, head of biologic psychology at Duke
University Medical Centeronce stated that: "If
[thankfulness] were a drug, it would be the world's best-selling
product with a health maintenance indication for every major
organ system."2
One way to harness the positive power of gratitude is to keep
a gratitude journal or list, where you actively write down
exactly what you're grateful for each day. In one study,3,
4 people who kept a gratitude journal reported
exercising more, and they had fewer visits to the doctor
compared to those who focused on sources of aggravation.
As noted in a previous ABC News article,5
studies have shown that gratitude can produce a number of
measurable effects on a number of systems in your body,
including:
Mood neurotransmitters (serotonin and
norepinephrine)
Inflammatory and immune systems (cytokines)
Reproductive hormones (testosterone)
Stress hormones (cortisol)
Social bonding hormones (oxytocin)
Blood pressure and cardiac and EEG rhythms
Cognitive and pleasure related neurotransmitters
(dopamine)
Blood sugar
Ways to Cultivate Gratitude
Cultivating a sense of gratitude will help you refocus your
attention toward what's good and right in your life, rather than
dwelling on the negatives and all the things you may feel are
lacking.
And, like a muscle, this mental state can be strengthened
with practice. Besides keeping a daily gratitude journal, other
ways to cultivate a sense of gratitude include:
Write thank you notes: Whether in
response to a gift or kind act, or simply as a show of
gratitude for someone being in your life, getting into the
habit of writing thank-you letters can help you express
gratitude in addition to simply feeling it inside.
Count your blessings: Once a week,
reflect on events for which you are grateful, and write them
down. As you do, feel the sensations of happiness and
thankfulness you felt at the time it happened, going over it
again in your mind.
Pray: Expressing thanks during your
prayers is another way to cultivate gratitude.
Mindfulness meditation: Practicing
"mindfulness" means that you're actively paying attention to
the moment you're in right now. A mantra is sometimes used
to help maintain focus, but you can also focus on something
that you're grateful for, such as a pleasant smell, a cool
breeze, or a lovely memory.
Expanding the Science and Practice of Gratitude
Three years ago, the Greater Good Science Center at the
University of California,6
in collaboration with the University of California, launched a
project called "Cultivating Gratitude in a Consumerist Society."
This $5.6 million project aims to:
Expand the scientific database of gratitude,
particularly in the key areas of human health, personal and
relational well-being, and developmental science;
Promote evidence-based practices of gratitude in
medical, educational, and organizational settings and in
schools, workplaces, homes and communities, and in so doing…
Engage the public in a larger cultural conversation
about the role of gratitude in civil society.
In 2012, 14 winning research projects were announced, with
topics covering everything from the neuroscience of gratitude,
to the role of gratitude for the prevention of bullying. The
organization has a number of resources you can peruse at your
leisure, including The Science of Happiness blog and newsletter,7
and a Digital Gratitude Journal,8
where you can record and share the things you're grateful for.
Scientists are also permitted to use the data to explore
"causes, effects, and meaning of gratitude."
For example, previous research has shown that employees whose
managers say "thank you" feel greater motivation at work, and
work harder than peers who do not hear those "magic words." As
noted in a previous Thanksgiving blog post in Mark's Daily
Apple:9"[R]esearch10
has shown that being on the receiving end of a person's
gratitude can boost subjects' sense of self-worth and/or
self-efficacy. It also appears to encourage participants to
further help the person who offered the gratitude but also
another, unrelated person in an unconscious 'pay it forward'
kind of connection."
Cultivating an Attitude of Gratitude as Part of a Healthy
Lifestyle
Starting each day by thinking of all the things you have to
be thankful for is one way to put your mind on the right track.
Also, remember that your future depends largely on the thoughts
you think today. So each moment of every day is an
opportunity to turn your thinking around, thereby helping or
hindering your ability to think and feel more positively in the
very next moment.
Most experts agree that there are no shortcuts to happiness.
Even generally happy people do not experience joy 24 hours a
day. But a happy person can have a bad day and still find
pleasure in the small things in life.
Be thankful for what you have. When life gives you a 100
reasons to cry, remember the 1,000 reasons you have to smile.
Face your past without regret; prepare for the future without
fear; focus on what's good right now, in the present
moment, and practice gratitude. Remember to say "thank you"—to
yourself, the Universe, and others. It's wonderful to see a
person smile, and even more wonderful knowing that you are the
reason behind it! And with that, I wish you all a Happy and
Healthy Thanksgiving!
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